The Drama Continues. . . . . .

Sorry, this is another journal post. SO much has happened, it's crazy. Bear with me, I promise that I'll try to make things more interesting during my next post. . . . .

Well, first of all, I have to add to something that I discussed in a different post. GOS confronted her boyfriend about him sending those nude pictures to that slutty girl. Guess what? He didn't deny it. Anyone shocked? I sure am. I had a feeling that the rumor was true, but I sure didn't expect him to own up to it o_O

Of course, GOS didn't break up with him. *Rolls Eyes* He cried apparently, and told her that what he did was way out of line and that it wouldn't happen again. Right.

Unfortunately, GOS forgave him. I wonder what he has to do to make her realize that he's a bad person. *Sigh* Maybe nothing can convince her of that. . . . .

As if this weren't enough, there's more. Oh yes, my life has been full of drama lately, and it doesn't seem to want to stop anytime soon.

I'm friends with a girl who'll be known as Bubbles on this blog. I've known Bubbles since preschool, so we go WAY back. We're still good friends now, and I'll tell you that we're both in high school. Her boyfriend will be known as TQ on this blog, and I'm friends with him too. I'm not as close to him as I am with Bubbles, but we are friends. Ironically, TQ is about three years older than Bubbles. Sound familiar? If it doesn't, I'll remind you that GOS's boyfriend is three years older than her, too. But TQ is very different than GOS's boyfriend. He's funny, nice, and he has morals (unlike GOS's boyfriend).

Bubbles and TQ had been going out for a couple of months, and they really seemed to click. They appeared to be very right for each other, they made a great couple. Bubbles is fairly mature for her age, so the age difference didn't even get in the way. Now I'm not an idiot, I knew that their relationship wouldn't last forever. However, since I'm friends with both of them, I was hoping that they'd be together for a long-ish time (I know how difficult things can get when two of your friends are mad at each other). So, just to sum things up, here were my two wishes: That GOS would break up with her boyfriend, and that Bubbles and TQ would stay together for a long time.

Just my luck, neither of my wishes were fulfilled. Bubbles and TQ broke up, and GOS is still happily coupled with loser-boy : (

Why did Bubbles and TQ break up you might ask? Good question. TQ and I have both been dying to have that one answered for a while now. Bubbles randomly started giving TQ the cold shoulder last Tuesday. I figured that as her friend, she'd be willing to tell me why she did this (she refused to tell TQ why she did. In fact, she refused to say anything to TQ at all). Bubbles surprised me, though, and gave me three lame excuses instead of a real answer. I won't even bother repeating her three lame reasons, they were obviously lies and I can't even remember them.

My first instinct was that TQ might have done something to Bubbles that she didn't want to talk about. This made no sense, though, being that TQ is a really great guy. I haven't known him for very long, but my opinion of him is very high. I seriously doubted that he did anything bad to Bubbles.

Well, just my luck, both of my friends wanted to talk to me about the other person. TQ would vent to me his frustrations about Bubbles just randomly dumping him, and Bubbles would complain that TQ was overreacting and not just "letting some things go".

I've known Bubbles for a long time, and my loyalties lie with her. Being caught in the middle sucks, and like it or not, the one in the middle almost always has to pick a side. Does anyone reading this have a bad experience about being caught in the middle? Anyway, I'm determined to keep talking to TQ (he's such a cool guy, it would suck to not be able to talk to him anymore) but I'm talking to him a lot less and Bubbles a lot more. Even though I'm talking to Bubbles, I think that she's being incredibly cruel to TQ.

Most guys would just be like, "Whatever, I don't care" and not look back if their girlfriend dumped them for no reason and started giving them the cold shoulder. I think that's what Bubbles was secretly counting on, actually. But TQ really cares about Bubbles. He's devastated (though he doesn't show it to Bubbles, who won't even look at him anymore) and he blames himself as the reason that Bubbles broke up with him, which is understandable. I really hate to see the pain that Bubbles is causing him, 'cause like I said earlier, he's a great guy and he doesn't deserve to have his heart ripped out like this without so much as the reason why he's being torn apart.

I think TQ suspects that I know the real reason that Bubbles broke up with him, but he also knows that my loyalty lies with her. Bubbles did eventually tell me the real reason why she dumped TQ, but I had to promise not to tell him. That's another reason why I think that Bubbles is being cruel, the real reason why she broke up with him. It had absolutely nothing to do with TQ at all, and it definitely lowers my opinion of Bubbles that she broke up with him just because of something so. . . . . heartless. I honestly can't think of a better word for it. It's heartless.

I won't put the real reason on my blog, anyone could stumble across it. Those that I am willing to tell already have my e-mail, so e-mail me if you want to know and I'll tell the real reason why Bubbles broke up with TQ.

~SunnyD out