This is a journal post, just warning you guys. *Sigh* Poor GOS. Well, it's not like we didn't see this coming. She and loser-boy are over, he broke up with her this morning. He told her that he thought he was falling for another girl. Can you imagine how painful that must be? Why would he feel the need to destroy what little of her heart that he's leaving by telling her that? She also happens to be friends with the girl that he now likes. Gr. Anyone want to help me egg loser-boy's house?
I'm not sure if I had some random precognition of this happening, but I had been out getting my hair cut today, and I decided to stop by Blockbuster on the way home. Lol, I got two chick flics and a random movie that I just picked up because Jake Gyllenhaal stars in it. When I got home there was a message for me from GOS. She was crying, and told me that I needed to call her back as soon as I could. I could guess at what had happened, so I immediately walked my dog, finished up a few other little chores, and left for her house half an hour later armed with the chic flics that I had picked up on a whim.
I spent most of the day at GOS's house, attempting to console her. She's doing pretty well, considering the circumstances. Her self esteem has taken a major blow, but it could be worse. It really ticks me off that loser-boy is doing the exact same thing to GOS that Bubbles did to TQ, just leaving her like she's some sort of broken toy. Even if they don't necessarily like their ex's anymore, can't they muster up a little sympathy for their feelings? Ugh, sometimes people (even my friends in Bubbles's case) disgust me.
GOS deserves a guy that really cares about her, not some creep looking for a brief change in partners to make out with. I really hate how some people rush things, just because they want a boyfriend/girlfriend. It's not a race or anything, people should date because they actually like the other person for who they are, not just for the thrill of having a boyfriend/girlfriend.
I won't pretend that I know everything there is to know about relationships, (quite the contrary, actually) so more than likely I'm just ranting about something that I don't know anything about. I know that they are extremely complicated, and I don't underestimate how complex relationships can get. I do believe that if the people are truly meant to be together, that it'll all work out somehow. Wow, that sounds incredibly cheesy.
Talking with GOS about her breakup all day got me thinking a lot about NHC. Can you blame me, though? Seeing the effects of GOS's breakup sent a shock of fear through me. Is that what it'll be like for me if/when NHC and I break up? I know that I'd be devastated, but NHC is ten times the guy that loser-boy is. If he ever did want to break up with me (which I REALLY hope won't happen, but today has made me a bit more pessimistic about relationships than usual) he'd probably do it honestly and try to spare my feelings as best as he could.
But maybe I'm worrying about nothing. NHC and I currently have a great relationship (at least I think so) and I shouldn't worry about if/when it'll end. I really hope it doesn't, but what do I know? I'm just another hopelessly infatuated teenager, right? *Sigh*
~Hopefully my next post will be more cheerful.
Saturday, January 17, 2009
Another Breakup
Posted by Danielle at 9:33 PM
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WHY DO PEOPLE GET UPSET OVER STUPID THINGS, LIKE BOYS?????????????????
LOOK AT ME, I HAVE EVERY REASON TO BE DEPRESSED!!!!!!!!!! BUT DO YOU SEE ME MOPING AROUND!!!!!!!!! SERIOUSLY, GRIP OF STEEL, GET A FREAKING GRIP ON YOURSELF!!!!!!!!! BE THANKFUL THAT YOU DON'T HAVE A WORSE SITUATION THAN ME!!!!!!!!1111111
Ouch, that was kinda harsh, Synfan. Besides the fact that GOS can't see that comment anyway (her computer sucks) if she could I'd delete it. That wasn't very comforting of you.
You do have a bad situation. But you're not exactly handling it perfectly, so let up on GOS.
sorry, i was really pissed off yesterday. i mean, when you have 2 things like that crashing up on you, it really hurts.
tell GOS that there are bajillions of other guys out there that would make her feel like who she is, not a crapbag. i've been perfectly happy (before all this even happened) w/o a guy in my life. so yeah...and you can be 40 and not married.
hmm, maybe i should start another blog. that'll make the third blog i have, the first 2 deleted...
relationships don't always last
Lol, thank you for that dash of cold water, Synfan. "Relationships don't always last." You should have that tattooed on your ankle or something. Or "bite me". Or "Team Edward".
Maybe she'll have higher standards now.
We care about boys because we're GIRLS and not HERMITS.
I dunno, GOS doesn't always learn from her mistakes. . . .
Maybe Synfan'll find the right guy at her new school and she'll care about him *Shrug*
all the guys at my school are man-whores, gay, or emo-punks. seriously, the emo pants are way tighter here than at the old school!!!!
and Alanna, when your grandfather who u were very close to dies, i think u would like some to urself too!! especially when another tragedy occured before that!!!!
This is why dating should not be done until the possibility of getting married is involved, you can only be a kid for so long, school and friends (the former of which I have to much and the latter of which I sadly lack) keep us busy enough.
Dating at this age can never end but one way, and when that happens it distracts us from more important matters for a good long time.
James
Whoa, whoa, whoa. Who says that dating can't ever be a positive experience? Dating can help us discover who we are, and the types of people that we connect with. It doesn't ALWAYS end badly. Also, in case you didn't notice, we're teenagers. Dating is just part of being a teenager, it's perfectly normal. So go ahead and tell your raging hormones to wait until the "possibility of getting married is involved", but I suggest that you develop a more realistic view of dating.
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